How To Sabotage A Cookout

  • The bf blows a fuse
  • Emet gets sick (again)

Today was one of those days. Of course, it’s the weekend and the bf decides he wants to drink heavily and cut up. But one of his friends had a cookout at Prospect Park, so as we are on our way, the boyfriend decides to throw back several bottles. Now I already don’t want to go. As usual, he starts off the day nice, but I’d say about 10 minutes of leaving the house, he starts to get agitated for no reason at all. He’s walking far ahead of me, and then he starts yelling at random people we pass. Taunting people and starting arguments. Everyone just looked at him like he was crazy and ignored him.

We went down into the subway to take the train to Brooklyn and as the walking on the platform narrowed, a man slowly moved out his path, but then the boyfriend stopped, turned and yelled at him why he wait until the last second to move out the way when he seen him coming. Now I _really_ don’t want to go anywhere because I know he’s going to be embarrassment for the rest of the day.

As we are sitting waiting for the train, he begins to get impatient, as usual, and asks if I’d rather take a cab. I figured since we were already waiting at the station, that we just waiting for the train. Unfortunately, we found out that the train was experiencing problems so it wasn’t going the full route. Then he yells something like this was my fault because we should take a cab!

He then asks me to look up how much an Uber is and it was $70. So he said he’d rather eat the $70 and take a cab to the cookout. Mind you we always go through this when he gets drunk and we’re out. He gets impatient with transportation, and then starts hopping transportation methods between the train, cab or bus which only makes matters worse because then he isn’t paying attention to routes or whatever, and then gets mad and takes it out on the world. He then told me to check Uber again and told him that now it’s $75. It went up $5 the quick time we came out of the station. So, I went ahead and booked the cab. Next thing I know h’s yelling at me to check what said of Prospect Park I got the Uber for … and then he began to scream.

I don’t remember what he was saying entirely because I was trying to ignore him to see which side of the park the Uber was going to go to. But he kept screaming about finding the address and when I told him to chill, so I could find it, he began to yell and be belligerent even more. He just kept screaming and screaming about the address. I couldn’t concentrate on finding the address and then just turned around and left him standing in the sidewalk and went back home.

He is the most cruelest person I’ve ever known

And then he started sending me the texts to send the Uber money back and that he was evicting me. this is what he does. Constantly threatening to throw me out, for no other reasons at all but him just wanting the power to throw somebody out of his apartment

But anyway, when I got home, I immediately started taking my things out of the apartment and put them in my storage. I couldn’t get everything, but I got most of the small stuff out.

In other news, Emet started his meds today for his congestion. Amoxicillin. He hated it. i squired it in his mouth and he acted like I shot his momma lol. Then later on the day he got really sick. Not sure if it was a reaction from the meds or not, but he was very lethargic. I tried to give him his second dose in the evening and he wasn’t even opening his mouth. So I warmed up some soft food and gave him a few squirts of that and he perked up. then I went and gave him his meds in the 3rd squirt and he didn’t even notice the nasty taste of the amoxicillin that time lol. So it looks like that’s my tactic to get him to take his meds. Doc recommended amoxicillin for 2 weeks and then bring him back for a follow up and vaccinations.

Cats are weird