Cindy a bitch
As a woman, I do see Cindy’s point. Women gauge a man by what he does, not what he says. Today’s lazy habits can lead to tomorrow’s bad habits. A man asking for handouts can be a red flag that he’s not willing to put much, if any effort, into anything, including his relationship with you either. And may even leech off you. A mature man wouldn’t expect freebies to be given to him. It’s seen as being bitch-made. But I really don’t see Cindy’s reason to bring this up when his post really didn’t need any attention at all